I had another dream abt my crush. (for a little context we re supposed to meet on Monday kinda and its the 1st meeting in 2 months cause we had a fight last time we saw eachother but he hasn't said anything since Friday) So I dreamt abt how he finally contacted me and he said the time. he wants to meet up but he also talked about stuff that had no corelation to anything. I answered him what felt like a few hours later and we both just kinda spawned at a random cafe but we were talking about anything but the elephant in the room but it was also awkward which was a big shift from the text he sent me. His parents randomly got up from behind him and they said they're going to the bathroom. I remember going as well and the dream shifted to the backyard of a house where apparently me and my family live. I dont remember who was there but I do remember my father saying that "the guys" (he was referring to my crush and his circle of friends) have grown apart and they're all different compared to back then but a few of them have gotten worse and became alcoholics. I remember my dad saying these exact words: "A few of them became violent alcoholics, they all follow *insert my crushs name*, but she (me) doesn't have to know". Also I noticed that in all parts of my dream the atmosphere was very creepy and desaturated. It looked like it was about to storm.
Dreams involving crushes often reveal deeper desires, anxieties, and unresolved feelings. In your dream, the context of an impending meeting with your crush, following a period of tension and silence, sets the stage for exploring your emotions regarding this person and your relationship.
The initial part of your dream where your crush finally reaches out to you, but the conversation feels awkward and strained, suggests your anxieties about the upcoming meeting. This may highlight your concerns over how to reconnect after the fight you had. The shift from an intimate interaction to a less personal and awkward dynamic reflects your fears about the possibility of things not returning to how they were. The randomness of the cafe setting can symbolize unpredictability in your emotions or the situation at hand. Perhaps you are apprehensive about whether you will be able to address the issues from the past or if you will avoid them entirely.
The appearance of your crush's parents adds another layer of complexity to the dream. Parental figures often symbolize authority, guidance, or judgment. Their presence may indicate that you feel scrutinized or judged about your relationship with your crush. The comment from your father about your crush's friends becoming violent alcoholics could signify a protective instinct. He might be reflecting your subconscious concerns about the potential negative influences around your crush or perhaps projecting your fears about the negative aspects of being involved with individuals who are not healthy or supportive.
The statement that "the guys have grown apart and they're all different" could reflect your own feelings about how relationships change over time, particularly after conflicts. It highlights a theme of transformation, both in your crush and in your social circles. Perhaps you feel that when you finally meet, things will not be as they were before. This may lead to a fear of the unknown, and you might be questioning if the connection you had will still exist or have shifted in some way.
The desaturated and eerie setting, along with the foreboding sky, further accentuates your anxiety and uncertainty about the meeting. Such an atmosphere can symbolize inner turmoil or distress. It may reflect your feeling that all isn’t well in the connection, thus leading to a gloomy outlook on whether things will resolve positively. The storm possibly symbolizes emotional conflict, indicating you’re facing turbulence in your feelings about this relationship.
In summary, your dream reflects your inner dialogue about your crush, your anxieties about reconciling after a fight, and your awareness of external influences on your relationship. Emotions tied to fear of change and unaddressed issues are magnified, leading to a dream rich in symbolism and perspective.
As Monday approaches, consider what you truly wish to communicate and whether you’re ready to address the "elephant in the room." This dream serves as a reflection of both your hopes and your apprehensions, guiding you to confront your feelings as you prepare for the meeting.